Archive for June 2007
selingkuh
precaution : this post is made when i am -soberly admit as- judgemental and lil bit shallow minded :p seorang teman, cowok, tau2 sms kemarin malam.
"gue tadi ngelamar mantan gue, tapi dia bilang dia bingung
coz dia lagi deket dan sayang sama cowok lain.
mereka ketemu beberapa hari setelah kita putus.
gue heran kok dia bisa secepat itu ya sayang sama cowok lain?"
pertanyaan : apakah yang salah dari keheranan teman gue itu?
hint : mereka putus karena teman gue selingkuh.
mas…, mas… mbok ya’o..
hmm, apakah adalah hal yang dapat dimaklumi kalau cowok itu selingkuh? dengan segala ‘pembenaran’ yang menyatakan “namanya juga cowok”, “kucing mana ada yang nolak kalo dikasih ikan asin” dll dsb dst kayaknya makin ‘membolehkan’ seseorang menjadi lebih permisif. don’t get me wrong, i know some girls that do cheating from her partners too, but since I hang out with boys for most of my times, i find my stories from their side.
more than 50% boys that I know, cheat from his ‘official’ partner. with various reasons. at first i think that it’s only happening to the 20-something-i’m-in-a-quarter-life-crisis-and-don’t-blame-me- for-cheating-coz-it’s-my-hormones people, but also on the older (and younger) age.
that’s exactly why i don’t believe boys, or men, whatever.. I love to be friends with them, but to be in a relationship with any of them is a way different thing. the smart boys are cheating, the rich boys always trying to find someone better, and most guys just don’t want any commitment.
my recent ‘love’ (if it’s decent enough to be called as love, anyway) life isn’t an ideal one either. but hey, i’m willing to take risks of my own choice, but bearing a pain that’s caused by another person without knowing what my fault was, well that, i can’t handle anymore. sick of it all. still.
*sigh..* wonder when i can find someone to take home to.. guess it’s still a long winding -and not to mention – rocky road for me.. but God knows the best, i believe 
waiting for mr right.. (i guess he’s not a myth.. isn’t he?)
*image taken from The Bitter Stickgal. I really love her drawings
a family dinner day out
then i went straight to my client’s office. it was raining. but since i always keep my umbrella -and my whole universe- in my house-sized bag, i wasn’t worried.
tapi saya lupa jika celana panjang saya berwarna krem. walhasil, sampai di IP, ada sedikit percikan air tampak di sisi belakang celana… hiks..
well sebenernya hari ini gue berencana after hour sama adek yang baru balik dari jogja, sekalian mau nyari kado buat ibu *she’s having her 50th b’day the day after tomorrow*
but somewhere around the afternoon, she called.
"nanti pulang jam berapa? mau diajak bapak makan diluar"
"paling jam 6 dari sini, tadinya sih aku mau jalan sama adek, tapi ya udahlah.. emang mau ke mana, bu?"
"ya nyari tempat yang deket2 sini aja"
"ok"
hmm, tampaknya akan menyenangkan. keluarga gue jarang pergi makan diluar rumah. my mom, being a cook herself, sering kali keberatan kalo harganya terlalu mahal.. dan beliau bakal bilang ‘mahal, mending bikin sendiri di rumah’ :p dan my dad suka ga sabar, dulu pernah mau makan diluar, padahal cuma ke PH di pesona khayangan aja.. eh, begitu ngeliat ada waiting list, langsung ilfil dan mutusin untuk take away aja dan makan di rumah, tanpa mau pergi nyari tempat lain.. hehehe..
so anyway, tadi akhirnya diputuskan mau makan di obonk, margonda. coz gue mau beli buku dulu, akhirnya gue n adek gue ketemuan dulu di gramed, baru nanti nyusul. dan ga berapa lama bokap telepon
"kita udah sampai nih, di obonk"
"ok, aku jalan ke sana deh"
sampai obonk, kita celingak – celinguk.. mobilnya diparkir dimana.. kok ga keliatan.. sampe akhirnya dengan cueknya masuk ke warung itu dan nyari2.. dimanakah orangtua kami..
ga lama bokap telepon lagi
"dimana? kita udah nungguin nih.."
"loh, bapak dimana?"
"di obonk.. seberang restoran sarimande.."
halah, ternyata kita ke tempat yang salah. jadi di margonda itu ada 2 obonk.. *i still haven’t got the point of building a same restaurant in a.. what.. like 2 kilos area?*
so, nyeberang lagi lah kita, 2 kali.. but it all went well. we had a great night 
